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虽然手头有一堆事要做，但我还是花了整整一个下午在网上找跟这件事有关的新闻报道。从来没有认真读过鲁迅同学作品的我，终于体会到了出离愤怒这4个字的真正含义。

故事大致是这样的，话说公元2007年间南太平洋一岛国上，一花甲猥琐男（采尼子）娶到一年轻美妻（also采尼子），得一女。猥琐男后发觉妻红杏出墙，杀妻弃女，逃往美利坚。 故事很简单。背后的却隐藏了3年的血泪史。据说此女长期suffer from domestic violence,曾几次进出women’s refuge shelter。最终仍未逃脱魔掌。

然而更加让我愤怒的是网上一些当地华人的comments：

匿名用户 发表于: 09月20日 15:53 更新: 09月20日 15:53 这种女人也没什么值得同情的

匿名用户 发表于: 09月20日 15:11 更新: 09月20日 15:11 了解情况的人应该明白，最开始的错误就是那个女的，想要为了拿PR，跟男人达成生孩子的协议，成功以后又嫌弃男人，最可恶的是还到WLG跟有妇之夫苟且。。。她就图一时之快，怎么就不考虑一下对方的老婆？！现在倒好了，她死了，自己的家庭完了，对方的家庭也好不了----警察已经到WLG那个男人家庭做调查了。。。你想对方老婆知道以后会如何？！让我们为小南瓜祷告，也为那个可能被这个女的搞的家破人亡的WLG家庭祈祷一下吧。。。

有时见过 发表于: 09月20日 13:33 更新: 09月20日 13:33 靠!什么蠢女人啊!明知道自己老公是武林高手还敢偷腥.现在只是杀了她而已,要是以前估计就死得更惨.死了活该

匿名用户 发表于: 09月20日 13:09 更新: 09月20日 13:09 老薛真爷们儿也！杀得好。该女背叛丈夫，与人通奸，活该！

对于中国男人不尊重妇女一事，我已忍耐很久。Chinaren和sohu上铺天盖地的“处女情节”我已眼不见为净。但是无论如何，这是一条活生生的人命。

我不否认，一直以来，我都是排斥中国传统的，什么三从四德，什么遵守妇道，is a load of crap to me。甚至于21世纪的今天，还有中国男人把自己的妻子看成自己的possession和property。在中国大陆，竟然流传着“家里红旗不倒，外面彩旗飘飘的”笑谈。没有人站出来反对这种做法，更有人把这作为一种fashionable trend。然而，如果一个女人背叛了自己的丈夫，那她就是千刀万剐，死有余辜。Ok, so I guess monogamy is against the human nature, but you know what? It’s a two way street!

最后，送给da murderer的几句话：shit happens, people change. You can figure this out when you spend the rest of your life behind the bars.

今天终于扔掉了我从国内背来的那些磁带及CD。

6年了。 终于可以从每次搬家都要做的思想斗争中解放出来了。

6年来不停的搬家，添置新的东西，扔掉旧的。唯一没有扔掉的就是这些磁带和CD。虽然很重，而且也从来没有再听过，就这么着一直放在箱子里。但是就是舍不得扔掉。因为，这些东西，代表的是我20岁以前的生活。这些磁带和CD里面的歌曲，是我20岁以前喜欢的。和那时的那些人，那些事，有着千丝万缕的联系。看到这些东西，就会想起那个国家，那座城市，和那个时候的我。

或许，我是痛恨20岁之前的自己的罢。那时的我是多么的软弱，感情用事，容易冲动容易崩溃。

6年来我只听西方流行音乐，因为这些音乐没有soul。这些音乐宣扬的是没有感情的生活，和所有已满足与未满足的欲望。

于是慢慢变得坚强。慢慢的清理掉所有的模糊，所有的神秘不清晰，抛弃感情用事，父母温暖的笑容以及对于某人的留恋和渴念。慢慢的变成西方人眼中勇敢自信的independent young lady.

这是否就是成熟的代价？

I'm in love!

For the first time in 26 years, I can finally say those little words without hesitating.

Since the day I met him we’ve become inseparable.

He wants to spend every second with me, which if happens to some other guy, could become the perfect break-up excuse for me. But this time is different.

I could just sit there and look at him for hours.

I love it when he looks at me with his big brown eyes.

I love it when he snuggles up to me and falls asleep peacefully.

For the first time in my life, I'm willing to sacrifice my precious shopping time for a boy.

His name is Baby Boy and he is my 6 months old Chihuahua.

My bestie recently went to Korea to get some sort of plastic surgery done. She told me when it was unbearable the nurse kept telling her to “go to your happy place”.

“So what is your happy place?” She asked me.

My happy place is in my Grandpa’s backyard when I was 6.

It was 6:30 in a bright summer morning. Mom and Dad were still asleep. I got up at 6 and went for a run with Grandpa. Then we would play Badminton. We were trying to create as many weird ways of hitting the ball as we could. We laughed and laughed. The next thing I know, Mom popped her head out of the window and complaint about the noise. So we had to move to the front yard to carry on our little game. There was a mixed smell of shampoo and fried egg in the air. I thought life would go on like this for ever.

I don't play Badminton anymore and getting up before 7am is just purely painful.

被点名了？都不知道？

来自Mable

 

【规则】
完成游戏的人将会永远得到大家的祝福。
根据问题回答,然后再点名其它朋友回答，被点名的朋友需在自己的Blog里公开

。要在自己的博客里注明是从哪里接到的，被点到名字的人将会得到大家的祝

福，并且所有美好的愿望都会在不久的将来实现。
A. 必须点名至少8个人，用尽所有办法通知各人参与这个游戏。
B. 被点名的人不可重复被点，每个人只可玩一次
C. 回答完问题后,需自行删除一个不喜欢的问题, 更换一个新的问题,然后点名其它人来玩 如此延续循环
D. 答案需在各自的BLOG公布 —— 没有BLOG的也可以直接在我这里回答。
【作答】

1 我要问的是，生日的时候你最想得到的礼物是什么？(What present do you want for your Birthday?)
-a red Porsche 911. coz hot babe drives a red car!

 

2 梦想绕了十八弯以后，你已经到了婚嫁之年，可你还不在路上，你会怎么选择？如果结婚是父母的意思，无法推卸呢？(What would you do if you are getting older everyday but still haven't met "the one"?)
-结婚和年龄有什么必要的关系吗？

 

3 如果中500万，你会怎么花?(What would you do if you win 5 million dollars?)

-环游世界然后定居Gold Coast

 

4 你最恐怖的事情？(What's your biggest fear?) 

-fall in love

 

5. 简单描述自己( Tell us briefly about yourself.)
-色厉内荏

 

6. 你现在最想做的是啥？(What do you wanna do right now?) 
-shopping，因为很久没烧了

 

7. 心中理想伴侣的八个条件 (Your ideal partner should be-)
-rich,thin,hot body,hot ass,good looking,funny,smart and MUST love me

 

8. 假设你肯定具备这方面的能力。同时，一定要选择并且只能选择一个的话，你希望自己（或者你老婆）第一胎生男还是生女？同时，给这个不幸的小家伙起个昵称（小名）(Do you want your first born to be a boy or a girl? And by what name?) 
-不喜欢小孩子，但是如果shit happens,let it be a girl

 

8. 你选择一种改变时候，最大的动力/动因 是什么( What motivates you to change?)

-我妈的名言，如果你对目前的状态不满，那么就去改变它

 

9. 你会选择一份有稳定收入的工作还是一份自己喜欢的工作? (Do you prefer to have a stable job or to do something you are passionate about?) 
-both

 

10. 假如你的伴侣得不到父母的认同，你会坚持还是放弃此段感情？(What would you do if your parents don't get along with your partner?)

-坚持

 

11. 如果30岁还嫁不出（娶不到）你会怎样？(What would you do if you are not married at the age of 30?) 
-跳楼......just kidding,嫁不掉就算了呗

 

12. 祢爸妈生日几时阿(What's your parents' Birthday?)

-confidential infomation

 

13 你是想找个你喜欢的人，还是喜欢你的人作为你的终生伴侣？(Would you marry the one that loves you or the one you love?) 
-both

14 你希望在别人眼中是怎样的人？ (What kind of person do you wanna be?)
-rich,thin,hot body,hot ass,good looking,funny,smart and cool

15 当孤单的时候会想起谁？(Who would you think about when you are lonely?) 
-我的爷爷

 

16. 你喜欢一见钟情还是日久生情？为什么？(Do you believe in love in the first sight or love when you get to know each other?) 
-我一般都是一见钟情，但很快就厌倦了

 

17. 你曾经把哪些男（女）明星作为你的梦中情人？(Who is your celebrity crush? Can be both male and female) 
-女的：Christina Aguilera

18. 如果可以满足你一件事，你会要什么? (If only one of your wishes may come true what would it be?)
-I want my Grandpa to be alive

 

19．what is your favorite color？
-white

 

20. 最喜欢的地方？(Favorite place?) 
-dancing floor

 

21. 你怎么知道自己喜欢一个人？(How do you know when you are in love with someone?) 
-when I start waiting for his phone calls

 

22. 喜欢冰淇淋的种类？(Favorite icecream?)
-banana flavoured

 

23. 最近在吃的东西？(What have you been eating lately?<what a dumbass question>)
-饭

 

24. 最近关心的话题？(What concerns you lately?) 

-final exams

25. 最近常去的地方？(Place that you go to a lot lately?) 
-library

 

26. 最近最想做的事？(What do you want to do the most lately?) 
-回家

 

27. 最近身体情况？(What's your health condition lately?) 
-很不好

 

28. 对朋友最想说的话？(What do you want to say to your friends?) 
-Thank you for everything.

 

29. 对自己最想说的话？(What do you want to say to yourself?)
-Sort out your shits!

 

30. 最喜欢吃的食物 (Your favorite food?)

-没有
 

31. 最喜欢的水果(Your favorite fruit?) 
-没有

32. 你愿意一辈子守在同一个人身边吗？(Do you want to spend the rest of your life with only one person?)
-I wish I could but can't guarantee it

 

33. 最近最郁闷的一件事 (What bothers you lately?) 
-boy issues

 

34. 最近看的一本书 (What have you been reading?)
-Company Law Statutes

 

35. 结婚，喜欢办酒，繁文缛节的仪式还是洒脱的外出(What's your dream wedding?) 

-Beach wedding

 

36. 旅行结婚最想去的地方(Where do you want to go for your honeymoon?) 

-Egypt

37. 会原谅曾经伤害过你的人吗?(Would you forgive the person who's hurt you before?) 
-不会

 

38 你认为婚礼上有什么必不可少的程序？( What do you think is the most important procedure in a wedding?)
-kiss

 

39. 你在哪个城市？你最喜欢它的什么地方？(Which city do you live? And what do you like about it?)

-Auckland, it's my home now

40 你最喜欢自己性格的哪个方面？(What do you like about your personality?) 
-乐意助人

41.愿意什么时候请我吃顿饭么？（哦hohoho～～～～） 
-ok

42. 一天有25个小时，那你在多出来地1小时内会做些什么事情？(If there was 25 hours per day what would you do with that extra hour?)  
-睡觉

 

43. 认为恋爱几年是最适宜结婚的? (How many years do you think people should spend on dating before they get married?)
-For ever

 

44. 这辈子最想去的地方？(Your "must go" travel destiny before you die?) 
-Egypt

 

45. 描述一下你最近一段时间的typical life。你对现在的生活状态感到满意吗？(What's your life like lately? And are you happy about it?) 
-big mess. not good, not good at all

 

46. 最讨厌和哪种人交往？(People that you will never be friends with?) 
-食言的人

 

47. 如果你生命将快结束，你最后做的是？？？ (If you are dying, what's the last thing you want to do?)
-和亲人一起

 

48 最受不了自己的哪个缺点？(What do you not like about your personality?) 
-喜新厌旧

 

49. 告诉我你真正想要的，愿意花一生去得到的东西？(Tell me the one thing that you really want and would spend your whole life to get it.) 
-cliche but true, "happiness"

 

50. 如果男(女)友做了对不起你的事,然后回来和你道歉,你还会原谅他并和他在一起吗? (If your partner cheated on you would you forgive them?)
-depends

 

51. 哪首歌能穿透你的心灵? (Your fav song?)
-Hurt by Christina Aguilera

 

52. 你能放下现在的生活，去乡村或其它城市重新开始吗？(Can you leave everything you own now and move to a different city?) 
-definitely(yes i can but not to the country side)

 

53 上个月的薪水你怎么花的？(What did you spend on last month?) 
-上个月没薪水

54 新房装修，你会用什么颜色装饰卧室？(What colour do you want for your bedroom walls?) 
-white

55 你希望在何时何地因为什么认识你的另一半？(How would you like to meet the one?)
-这些都应该coming naturally (stolen from Mable)

Saw this one in May's blog and it moved me to tears.

The most romantic thing is--holding your hand and growing old with you.

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世界上最幸福和浪漫的事
世界上最幸福和浪漫的事就是------执子之手与子偕老

 

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